To be exact, this post is about learning to give your partner a perfect orgasm – in a Tantric sort of way.
Mmmm – Hope I have your juices flowing…… Curious? Read on…..
I came across a post the other day about Orgasmic Meditation or OM as it is abbreviated to. In brief terms, this is a practice where one partner gently strokes the other partners clit for 15 minutes – Note that it is for 15 minutes ONLY! The goal is not to orgasm. In fact there is no goal except to relax. The fact that you may or do actually orgasm is the cherry on top so to speak.
Quite honestly I don’t see how you can not orgasm – watch the video at the end!
It is recommended that women receive OM about 3 times a week. There are quite a few benefits and I wont go into detail here – I’ll put some links at the end of the post and you can read up on them yourself.
It works like this and I quote: “after building a “nest” out of soft furnishings, the stroking partner lubes a gloved finger, sets a timer for exactly 15 minutes, and strokes the “upper left quadrant” of the woman’s clitoris with no goal but to “feel what is happening in the moment.” Before he (or she) gets down to business, the stroker examines and describes the vagina he’s about to stroke, discussing color, texture, shape, and any feelings he’s having while looking at it. This is a pretty uncomfortable thing to watch. At the end of the allotted time, both parties share a glimpse of their experience, using sentences like, “A white light extended from your pussy through to my finger.” (In OM, the vagina is always, always, a “pussy.”) Theoretically, the experience is equally intense for both participants—stroker and strokee.”
Yeah – the “stroker” has to examine you and describe what he is seeing. Um, just a little awkward! Or is it? Should this not be part of the intimacy you share. Should you not be open with each other and be able to describe what you are seeing and what you are feeling?
So why not give it a try with that someone special in your life! It might just be an enlightening experience. What have you got to loose?
Here are some links to articles I found interesting on the subject:
And please take the time to watch the video below. You will not be sorry. The video is reasonably clean.